E-dating Secrets : How to Surf for Your Perfect Love Match on the Internet

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Pub. Date: 2004-09-30
Publisher(s): Lightning Source Inc
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Table of Contents

Foreword by Mark Victor Hansen xvii
Reflections from the Author - Your E-date with Destiny xxi
Introduction: Welcome to the New Conventional Dating 1(28)
Online Dating: Better Than Blind Dates, Business or Bars
1(3)
How Does E-dating Work'?
4(1)
Statistics and the Multi-Billion Dollar Industry
4(1)
Beware Before You Buy the Boasting
5(1)
Singles Turning to the Net
6(1)
Online Dating Statistics
7(1)
Online Dating Is Not Just for Geeks!
8(1)
Women Winning the E-dating Game
8(1)
Industry Trends
9(1)
Top 10 E-dating Excuses...Myth Busting and Truth Serum
10(3)
What about Other Ways to Get a Date'?
13(1)
Traditional Ways
13(4)
NEW Dating Services
17(1)
Top 10 Benefits of E-dating
18(3)
E-dating Equipment
21(1)
Don't Date Dial-Up!
22(1)
E-mail Accounts for E-dating
22(2)
Top 10 Ways to Avoid Frustration Using Free Email Services
24(3)
Homework: First Steps
27(2)
Secret #1 Know Who You Are and What You Really Want 29(20)
Who Am I Really?
31(2)
What Am I About?
33(1)
Empower Your Future Relationships
33(2)
Where Did All These Garbage Bags Come From?
35(3)
A Big Concept with Simple Truths to Consider
38(1)
Empower Yourself
38(1)
Empower Your Life
39(1)
Be Empowered by a Previous Relationship or Marriage
40(1)
Everybody Has a Dream...What's Your Dream?
40(1)
What Is the Right Chemistry?
41(1)
What's Your Love Language?
42(1)
How to Develop the Right Chemistry Online
43(1)
Kinesthetic Personality Clues
44(1)
Visual Personality Clues
45(1)
Auditory Personality Clues
46(3)
Secret #2 Don't Date by Default, Date by Design 49(26)
Why Settle When You Can Surf?
50(1)
My Mother Was Wrong... the Internet Proved It
51(1)
What Are You Fishing For?
52(2)
What's Your Type?
54(1)
Write out a Top 25 List
55(2)
Who Is Really Compatible? The 5 Foundations of Compatibility
57(1)
Religion/Spiritual
57(1)
Marriage/Family
57(1)
Lifestyle/Social
58(1)
Career/Financial
58(1)
Physical/Emotional Chemistry
59(1)
Know Your Limits...Define the Deal-Breakers
59(1)
Long Distance Lovers...Love Knows No Boundaries
60(2)
What about Astrological Compatibility?
62(3)
Astrological Compatibility Secrets Made Easy
65(5)
How Much of an Animal Are You?
70(5)
Secret #3 It's Not Love at First Sight, It's Love at the Right Site 75(18)
What's the Best Online Dating Site?
75(2)
The Top 5 Things to Consider When Selecting a Dating Site
77(1)
Why Surf for Hours When You Can Compare in a Couple of Clicks?
77(1)
Top 5 Tips on Posting Your Profile
78(2)
Top 10 Tips for Selecting the Right E-dating Site
80(3)
What about Chat Rooms?
83(3)
One-on-One Chat Rooms
86(1)
Is It Live or Is It Messenger? Use Real-Time Conversations, Audio and Video
87(1)
Instant Messenger Etiquette
88(1)
Things to Remember When Using Messenger
89(4)
Secret #4 Write a WOW of a Profile to Irresistibly Attract Your Perfect Match 93(14)
Men Scan, Women Read
94(1)
Write a Profile That Will Flood Your Inbox
95(1)
Create an Intriguing Headline
95(1)
An Attention-Grabbing First Line
96(1)
A Fun-to-Read Profile Blurb (Essay)
97(2)
An Irresistible Hook - A Playful Call to Action/Response
99(1)
Top 10 Profile Writing Tips and Common Mistakes to Avoid
100(4)
Homework: Next Steps
104(3)
Secret #5 Create a Mini Photo Album to Say a Thousand Words You Can't 107(8)
Do I Really Need a Photo?
107(1)
Show Off the Multi-faceted You...Photo Album Guidelines
108(2)
You WERE Born Photogenic! Top 10 Secrets for Irresistible Photos
110(5)
Secret #6 Flood Your Inbox and Guarantee the Right Response 115(12)
Making Contact: Make the Best First Move
115(3)
Who Deserves a Response? Everyone
118(1)
Why Didn't I Get a Response?
119(1)
Stud or Dud?
120(1)
Too Busy Juggling
120(1)
The Guaranteed Response Formula
121(1)
Getting More Hits and Responses - The 7 Secrets to Maximize Site Search Engines
122(5)
Secret #7 Ask the Right Questions in the Right Way 127(14)
How to Become a Memorable Conversationalist
129(1)
Carry a Conversation in Four Words or Less
129(1)
Ask about What's Important to You
129(1)
Inquire, Don't Conduct an Inquisition
130(1)
Listen Openly without Judging
130(1)
Top 10 Guidelines for Asking Questions
131(1)
Continuing Conversations
132(1)
Top 20 Fact Finding Questions
133(1)
Top 20 Character-Telling Questions
134(1)
Top 20 Baggage-Revealing Questions
135(1)
Top 20 Red Flag and Stop-Sign Questions
136(1)
Top 20 Just-for-Fun Questions
137(4)
Secret #8 Be Safe Rather Than Sorry...Go Google Before You Go Ga-Ga 141(20)
Deception Happens
142(2)
Ask Lots of Questions and Verify the Answers
144(1)
Practice Need to Know
145(1)
Protect Your Phone Number
146(1)
Can You Be Too Careful?
147(1)
Top 10 E-dating Safety Tips
147(3)
How Much Should I Reveal?
150(1)
7 Things You Should Never Reveal Until After the Third Date
150(2)
Go Google to Gather the Goods
152(2)
Are They Who They Say They Are? Do a Background Check
154(1)
Details You Can Search on the Internet for Free
154(2)
Should You Hire Someone to Do a Background Check?
156(2)
Online Services Can Provide Important Details
158(3)
Secret #9 See the Signs, Use Your Intuition, Reject without Rejecting 161(14)
How to Reject Someone without Them Feeling Rejected
161(2)
Top 20 "Dear John" (or Jane) Excuses
163(2)
Top 10 Reasons Not to Respond to a Profile
165(1)
Patterns of Online Seekers
166(1)
Stage One: Puppy Love
166(1)
Stage Two: Confident Cruiser
166(1)
Stage Three: Playful Player
167(1)
Stage Four: Serious Surfer
167(1)
BEWARE the Serial Dater
168(1)
The Sex Surfer
168(1)
Bottom Line Advice on Getting to Relationship
169(1)
Watch for Red Flags and Stops Signs
169(1)
You Should Be Concerned if You Are Dating Someone Who
170(5)
Secret #10 Use the Rule of Three...Everything Good Happens in Threes 175(14)
What's Next?
176(1)
The E-dating Rule of Three
176(1)
3 Months of Surfing
176(1)
3 Prospects
177(1)
3 Emails
177(1)
3 Questions
178(1)
3 Phone Calls
178(1)
3 Dates
178(1)
3 Weeks
178(1)
3 Weeks - 3 Months before Sex
179(1)
SEX...Love and Lust Blindness
180(1)
Secrets and Cybersex
180(2)
Is It Internet Love or Lust?
182(1)
What's Expected and What to Expect
183(2)
Top 10 Guidelines for Knowing When to Explore Sexual Chemistry
185(4)
Final Word 189(4)
Don't Make Waves, Go With the Flow
189(4)
Appendix A The Blame Game 193(4)
Appendix B Commonly Used Acronyms for Email, Chat Rooms and Instant Messenger 197(6)
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