| Foreword by Mark Victor Hansen |
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| Reflections from the Author - Your E-date with Destiny |
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| Introduction: Welcome to the New Conventional Dating |
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Online Dating: Better Than Blind Dates, Business or Bars |
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Statistics and the Multi-Billion Dollar Industry |
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Beware Before You Buy the Boasting |
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Singles Turning to the Net |
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Online Dating Is Not Just for Geeks! |
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Women Winning the E-dating Game |
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Top 10 E-dating Excuses...Myth Busting and Truth Serum |
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What about Other Ways to Get a Date'? |
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Top 10 Benefits of E-dating |
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E-mail Accounts for E-dating |
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Top 10 Ways to Avoid Frustration Using Free Email Services |
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| Secret #1 Know Who You Are and What You Really Want |
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Empower Your Future Relationships |
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Where Did All These Garbage Bags Come From? |
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A Big Concept with Simple Truths to Consider |
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Be Empowered by a Previous Relationship or Marriage |
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Everybody Has a Dream...What's Your Dream? |
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What Is the Right Chemistry? |
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What's Your Love Language? |
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How to Develop the Right Chemistry Online |
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Kinesthetic Personality Clues |
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Auditory Personality Clues |
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| Secret #2 Don't Date by Default, Date by Design |
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Why Settle When You Can Surf? |
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My Mother Was Wrong... the Internet Proved It |
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What Are You Fishing For? |
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Who Is Really Compatible? The 5 Foundations of Compatibility |
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Physical/Emotional Chemistry |
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Know Your Limits...Define the Deal-Breakers |
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Long Distance Lovers...Love Knows No Boundaries |
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What about Astrological Compatibility? |
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Astrological Compatibility Secrets Made Easy |
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How Much of an Animal Are You? |
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| Secret #3 It's Not Love at First Sight, It's Love at the Right Site |
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What's the Best Online Dating Site? |
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The Top 5 Things to Consider When Selecting a Dating Site |
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Why Surf for Hours When You Can Compare in a Couple of Clicks? |
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Top 5 Tips on Posting Your Profile |
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Top 10 Tips for Selecting the Right E-dating Site |
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Is It Live or Is It Messenger? Use Real-Time Conversations, Audio and Video |
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Instant Messenger Etiquette |
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Things to Remember When Using Messenger |
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| Secret #4 Write a WOW of a Profile to Irresistibly Attract Your Perfect Match |
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Write a Profile That Will Flood Your Inbox |
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Create an Intriguing Headline |
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An Attention-Grabbing First Line |
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A Fun-to-Read Profile Blurb (Essay) |
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An Irresistible Hook - A Playful Call to Action/Response |
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Top 10 Profile Writing Tips and Common Mistakes to Avoid |
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| Secret #5 Create a Mini Photo Album to Say a Thousand Words You Can't |
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Do I Really Need a Photo? |
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Show Off the Multi-faceted You...Photo Album Guidelines |
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You WERE Born Photogenic! Top 10 Secrets for Irresistible Photos |
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| Secret #6 Flood Your Inbox and Guarantee the Right Response |
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Making Contact: Make the Best First Move |
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Who Deserves a Response? Everyone |
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Why Didn't I Get a Response? |
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The Guaranteed Response Formula |
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Getting More Hits and Responses - The 7 Secrets to Maximize Site Search Engines |
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| Secret #7 Ask the Right Questions in the Right Way |
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How to Become a Memorable Conversationalist |
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Carry a Conversation in Four Words or Less |
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Ask about What's Important to You |
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Inquire, Don't Conduct an Inquisition |
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Listen Openly without Judging |
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Top 10 Guidelines for Asking Questions |
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Top 20 Fact Finding Questions |
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Top 20 Character-Telling Questions |
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Top 20 Baggage-Revealing Questions |
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Top 20 Red Flag and Stop-Sign Questions |
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Top 20 Just-for-Fun Questions |
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| Secret #8 Be Safe Rather Than Sorry...Go Google Before You Go Ga-Ga |
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Ask Lots of Questions and Verify the Answers |
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Protect Your Phone Number |
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Top 10 E-dating Safety Tips |
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How Much Should I Reveal? |
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7 Things You Should Never Reveal Until After the Third Date |
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Go Google to Gather the Goods |
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Are They Who They Say They Are? Do a Background Check |
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Details You Can Search on the Internet for Free |
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Should You Hire Someone to Do a Background Check? |
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Online Services Can Provide Important Details |
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| Secret #9 See the Signs, Use Your Intuition, Reject without Rejecting |
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How to Reject Someone without Them Feeling Rejected |
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Top 20 "Dear John" (or Jane) Excuses |
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Top 10 Reasons Not to Respond to a Profile |
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Patterns of Online Seekers |
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Stage Two: Confident Cruiser |
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Stage Three: Playful Player |
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Stage Four: Serious Surfer |
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Bottom Line Advice on Getting to Relationship |
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Watch for Red Flags and Stops Signs |
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You Should Be Concerned if You Are Dating Someone Who |
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| Secret #10 Use the Rule of Three...Everything Good Happens in Threes |
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The E-dating Rule of Three |
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3 Weeks - 3 Months before Sex |
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SEX...Love and Lust Blindness |
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Is It Internet Love or Lust? |
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What's Expected and What to Expect |
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Top 10 Guidelines for Knowing When to Explore Sexual Chemistry |
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| Final Word |
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Don't Make Waves, Go With the Flow |
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| Appendix A The Blame Game |
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| Appendix B Commonly Used Acronyms for Email, Chat Rooms and Instant Messenger |
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