
Get Out of Your Own Way
by Goulston, Mark (Author); Goldberg, Philip (Author)-
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Summary
With anecdotes and usable insights drawn from twenty years of psychiatric clinical practice, Dr. Mark Goulston shares ideas that have helped thousands of patients overcome pain, fear, and confusion - to approach life's challenges with dignity, wisdom, courage, and even humor. By encouraging you to reflect upon your behavior - and providing practical steps toward change that you can work into your everyday life - Get Out of Your Own Way shows you how to stop being your own worst enemy - and become your own best friend.
Table of Contents
10 Things You Can Learn from Self-Defeating Behavior | p. xi |
Introduction: How to Beat Self-Defeat | p. xv |
Chasing After Love and Approval From a Parent | p. 1 |
Getting Involved With the Wrong People | p. 6 |
Procrastinating | p. 11 |
Expecting Others to Understand How You Feel | p. 15 |
Waiting Until It's Too Late | p. 21 |
Getting So Angry You Make Things Worse | p. 25 |
Saying Yes When You Want to Say No | p. 29 |
Holding a Grudge | p. 33 |
Assuming They Don't Want Anything in Return | p. 37 |
Playing It Safe | p. 41 |
Always Having to Be Right | p. 45 |
Focusing on What Your Partner Is Doing Wrong | p. 49 |
Putting up With Broken Promises | p. 54 |
Trying to Make up While You're Still Angry | p. 59 |
Not Learning From Your Mistakes | p. 63 |
Trying to Change Others | p. 67 |
Rebelling Just for the Sake of Rebelling | p. 71 |
Talking When Nobody's Listening | p. 75 |
Pretending You're Fine When You're Not | p. 79 |
Becoming Obsessive or Compulsive | p. 83 |
Taking Things Too Personally | p. 88 |
Acting Too Needy | p. 92 |
Having Unrealistic Expectations | p. 96 |
Trying to Take Care of Everybody | p. 100 |
Refusing to "Play Games" | p. 104 |
Putting on an Act to Make a Good Impression | p. 108 |
Being Envious of Others | p. 113 |
Feeling Sorry for Yourself | p. 117 |
Assuming the Hard Way Is the Right Way | p. 122 |
Thinking "I'm Sorry" Is Enough | p. 126 |
Holding It All In | p. 130 |
Quitting Too Soon | p. 135 |
Letting Others Control Your Life | p. 139 |
Leaving Too Much to Chance | p. 143 |
Letting Fear Run Your Life | p. 148 |
Not Moving on After a Loss | p. 152 |
Not Getting Out When the Getting Is Good | p. 156 |
Not Asking for What You Need | p. 161 |
Giving Advice When They Want Something Else | p. 166 |
Backing Down Because You Don't Feel Ready | p. 171 |
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