Romancing the Ordinary : A Year of Simple Splendor 2004 Engagement Calendar

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Pub. Date: 2002-10-29
Publisher(s): Scribner
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Summary

In her first major book since Something More, #1 New York Times bestselling author Sarah Ban Breathnach takes readers to a new level of personal fulfillment and spiritual awareness as they learn to rediscover and savor the sensual experience of daily life. Organized as a saunter through the year, Romancing the Ordinary celebrates the spirituality of the senses, seasonally and monthly. Ban Breathnach believes that women are endowed not with five senses but with seven. In addition to rediscovering sight, sound, scent, taste, and touch, readers will come to cherish their sense of "knowing" -- a woman's intuitive sense -- and "wonder," her sense of rapture and reverence. Writing in the style so beloved by her millions of readers, and drawing on myth, literature, film, music, and drama, Ban Breathnach encourages each woman to discover what moves her to tears, makes her blood rush to her head, her heart skip a beat, and her soul sigh. Interwoven with the text are seasonal indulgences intended to restore weary feminine souls -- recipes, rituals, decorating, fashion, and gardening hints. By encouraging her to delight in the often overlooked gifts of every day -- from the aroma of simmering homemade spaghetti sauce to the sensation of freshly laundered linen against bare skin -- Romancing the Ordinary is sure to help every woman fall in love with Life.

Author Biography

Sarah Ban Breathnach is the publisher of the Simple Abundance Press and founder of the Simple Abundance Charitable Fund. Her book Simple Abundance: A Yearbook of Comfort and Joy was one of the top ten bestselling books of the nineties. Her other books include Sarah Ban Breathnach's Mrs. Sharp's Traditions, A Man's Journey to Simple Abundance, Something More: Excavating Your Authentic Self, The Simple Abundance Journal of Gratitude, and The Simple Abundance Companion.

Table of Contents

Upon Reading This Book
January
Truth or Dare
10(1)
The Second Time Around
11(2)
Sense Speak
13(1)
A Spirituality of the Senses
14(2)
Reawakening Your Essensual Self
16(2)
Come to Your Senses: Sole Mates
18(1)
The Essence of Sight
19(2)
The Essence of Sound
21(1)
The Essence of Scent
22(2)
The Essence of Taste
24(1)
The Essence of Touch
25(2)
The Essence of Knowing
27(1)
The Essence of Wonder
28(2)
Eyes Wide Shut
30(2)
The Scent of a Woman
32(2)
Come to Your Senses: Mornings of Imperishable Bliss
34(3)
They Can't Take That Away
37(2)
Come to Your Senses: What Goes On Behind Closed Doors
39(2)
Between the Lines: Tangerine Dreams
41(2)
On Keeping Winter
43(2)
Come to Your Senses: Sip, Sup, Savor, Sigh
45(1)
Sensing Simple Splendors
46(4)
February
The Great Romance
50(2)
Beginning to See the Light
52(1)
Paradise Found
53(2)
What's in a Name?
55(2)
Come to Your Senses: Name Thy God
57(3)
The Soulcraft of Pampering
60(2)
Come to Your Senses: Let the Night Retire
62(1)
The Way You Look Today
63(2)
Extra Scentual Perception
65(2)
Live and Let Love
67(2)
Lost and Found
69(1)
Come to Your Senses: Falling in Love with Love
70(3)
Game, Set, Match, Love
73(2)
Come to Your Senses: Table for One
75(3)
Becoming Your Own Courtesan
78(2)
Awaiting Love
80(1)
The Lost Arts of Love
81(3)
Come to Your Senses: The Food of Love
84(2)
Sin and Sensibility
86(3)
Come to Your Senses: Divine Decadence
89(1)
Chocolate Becomes You
90(2)
Between the Lines: Sense-Drenched Spirituality
92(4)
March
Between the Dreaming and the Coming True
96(2)
Come to Your Senses: The Waiting Game
98(2)
Wild Thing
100(1)
Come to Your Senses: Wild Things to Do While Waiting
101(3)
Letting Mother Nature Nurture
104(2)
Rain Rapture
106(2)
Come to Your Senses: Saving for a Rainy Day
108(4)
Lady Luck
112(2)
Every Breath You Take
114(2)
Phantom of Delight
116(2)
Inspired Breathing
118(1)
The Breathing Home
119(2)
Come to Your Senses: Why Scent Your Surroundings?
121(3)
Coming into Balance
124(2)
Who Could Ask for Anything More?
126(1)
Savoring Your Day
127(2)
Come to Your Senses: Stewing in Your Own Juices
129(3)
Come to Your Senses: Yummy Kitchen
132(3)
Ghost of a Chance
135(1)
Weeding Out
136(2)
Come to Your Senses: Going into the Closet
138(2)
The Threads That Bind
140(2)
Between the Lines: Sacred Duality
142(4)
April
Enchanted April
146(3)
Finding What You Never Lost
149(2)
The Very Pink of Perfection
151(2)
Come to Your Senses: Transcendent Flavors
153(2)
Losing What You Never Had
155(2)
Feeling Like a Motherless Child
157(4)
Come to Your Senses: Springtime Spa
161(2)
Do You Believe in Magic?
163(2)
Nothing Conjured, Nothing Gained
165(2)
What Is Magic?
167(2)
Your Life Is Your Magic
169(1)
Every Little Spell She Speaks
170(3)
Come to Your Senses: The Magic Spell of Scent
173(4)
The Magic of Glamour
177(3)
Come to Your Senses: Springtime Saucery
180(3)
The Listening Walk
183(1)
Between the Lines: Basic Instincts
184(1)
Come to Your Senses: Wake Up to Wonder
185(5)
May
Sacred Partnerships
190(1)
Changing Places
191(2)
Just One Look
193(2)
Being Home
195(3)
So Nice to Come Home To
198(3)
On Holy Ground
201(2)
Come to Your Senses: Holy Homecoming Footbath
203(1)
Good Vibrations
204(2)
You Can Hide but You Cannot Run
206(2)
Messy Girl
208(2)
Come to Your Senses: When Mess Becomes More
210(1)
A Home for the Soul
211(2)
Chez Moi
213(3)
Sacred Space
216(1)
Sensuous Scrubbing
217(2)
Come to Your Senses: Heaven Scent
219(2)
Romancing the Home
221(1)
Far-Flung Fantasies
222(2)
Come to Your Senses: Spice Girl
224(2)
Home Comforts
226(1)
Unlikely Prayers
227(2)
Come to Your Senses: The Caretaker's Cup of Cheer
229(1)
Between the Lines: Honey, I'm Home
230(4)
June
Stilled Life
234(1)
A Life Less Ordinary
235(2)
What Lies Beneath
237(1)
She Who Should Be Obeyed
238(2)
The Other Side of Silence
240(1)
Perfect to a Fault
241(3)
Just the Way You Are
244(1)
Romancing the Flaws
245(1)
Backward, O Backward...
246(3)
Come to Your Senses: Peculiarly Personal
249(1)
Queen of Denial
250(3)
Come to Your Senses: A Little Dab
253(1)
The Fusing Grace
254(3)
Speaking of Unmentionables
257(3)
Come to Your Senses: Rosebud
260(4)
Allure a la Mode
264(2)
The Supporting Cast
266(3)
Come to Your Senses: Midsummer Magic
269(3)
Through a Glass Darkly
272(2)
Come to Your Senses: Chantilly Lace
274(2)
Between the Lines: Pas Mal ...
276(4)
July
The Being and the Knowing
280(3)
Too Wonderful for Words
283(1)
Sins of Omission
284(3)
Sensing What's Good for You
287(1)
Bliss Blockers
288(3)
An Education in Yourself
291(2)
You've Got It
293(2)
A School for the Senses
295(2)
Come to Your Senses: The Glamour of the Grill
297(5)
The Moveable Feast
302(3)
Come to Your Senses: Romancing the Salad
305(4)
Love Like Breakfast
309(2)
Come to Your Senses: Basking in Bliss
311(3)
Gift from the Sea
314(4)
Beauty and the Beach
318(3)
Come to Your Senses: Ode to Salt
321(3)
Between the Lines: Becoming Self-Centered
324(4)
August
In Good Company
328(3)
Playmates
331(1)
Jumping into Each Day's Deep End
332(2)
The Call of the Wild
334(3)
Love Between the Lines
337(3)
Shady Nooks and Racy Books
340(2)
Come to Your Senses: Unsuitable Ladies
342(2)
Hat Tales
344(3)
Come to Your Senses: Here Comes the Sun
347(3)
The Adventure of Accomplishment
350(3)
Past Forgetting
353(3)
Come to Your Senses: Soda Fountain Sojourns
356(2)
Travels of an Independent Woman
358(1)
Distance Lends Enchantment
359(2)
Vacationing at Home
361(3)
Come to Your Senses: Memories Are Made of This
364(2)
Between the Lines: Running Away to Serenity
366(4)
September
The Season of Relinquishment
370(2)
Taking Stock of Your Losses
372(2)
Getting Defensive
374(3)
Bring On the Night
377(2)
Come to Your Senses: Rest Assured
379(4)
Sensuous Sulking
383(4)
Come to Your Senses: Your Fondest Bedtime Companion
387(4)
A Good Cry
391(1)
The Soul Remembers When
392(3)
Come to Your Senses: Tender Mercies
395(1)
Getting Through Getting over It
396(5)
Mythical Woman
401(2)
The One Story Worth Telling
403(3)
The Essensuality of Desire
406(2)
Come to Your Senses: Lead Her into Temptation
408(2)
Between the Lines: All About Eve
410(4)
October
Making Other Plans
414(2)
Getting out of Your Own Way
416(1)
Entre Nous
417(3)
The Pause That Refreshes
420(2)
In the Nick of Time
422(2)
She Wears It Well
424(3)
Come to Your Senses: Every Woman's Gem
427(3)
The Familiar Revisited
430(2)
Come to Your Senses: Backwoods Babe
432(3)
A Sunday Kind of Love
435(3)
Come to Your Senses: The Passionate Flea
438(3)
Tea Will Tell
441(2)
Between the Lines: Finders Keepers
443(1)
All That Is Hidden Should Be Revealed
444(2)
Come to Your Senses: Bewitched, Bothered, and Bewildered
446(6)
November
You Were Meant for Me
452(3)
Come to Your Senses: Just One
455(3)
The Secret Marriage
458(1)
Night Vision
459(2)
Come to Your Senses: This Delicious Day
461(3)
How Do You Keep the Music Playing?
464(2)
Come to Your Senses: A Plea to Stop Whining
466(4)
Lovespeak
470(2)
Come to Your Senses: Dearest and Best
472(3)
Cold Comfort Charms
475(2)
Come to Your Senses: Romancing the Cold
477(3)
Come to Your Senses: Pajama Food
480(3)
Come to Your Senses: A Winter's Tale or Two
483(2)
Going Back to Your Roots
485(2)
Come to Your Senses: Vegetable Love
487(1)
We'll Take Romance
488(2)
Between the Lines: Love After Love
490(4)
December
Marvelous Truth
494(2)
Romancing the Season
496(1)
On Your Marks, Get Set
497(2)
The Ghosts of Christmas Past
499(3)
Come to Your Senses: A Season to Remember
502(3)
All You Really Want from Santa, Baby
505(2)
Come to Your Senses: The Twelve Days of Christmas
507(3)
Christmastide at Newton's Chapel
510(3)
Come to Your Senses: Newton's Chapel Cup of Cheer
513(2)
Better Than Christmas
515(4)
Come to Your Senses: It's a Wrap
519(2)
Out and About
521(3)
Between the Lines: The Believer
524(1)
Come to Your Senses: Trees Telling Tales
525(3)
O Holy Night
528(3)
Come to Your Senses: Blooming Change
531(1)
Going One-on-One
532(3)
Once More with Feeling
535(6)
Upon Finishing This Book
Selected Bibliography 541(7)
With Thanks and Appreciation 548(2)
Index 550(8)
Photograph Credits and Permissions 558(2)
About Sarah Ban Breathnach 560

Excerpts

November The love of bare November daysBefore the coming of the snow... -- Robert Frost November loves the pilgrim soul in you and longs to erase the fretting from your frazzled face. With the holidays fast approaching, have you already grumbled away this month's gifts of grace? Family, feasting, and fussing might be en route, but November knows how to take care of you. So let her, with cold comfort charms, a winter's tale or two, sumptuous pajama suppers, and splendor in the glass. The stunning Ordinary in the simply overlooked. Let that cup runneth over with sensuous self-preservation. You Were Meant for Me To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. -- Oscar Wilde "Truly choosing to be single is very different from being single and looking for a partner or just waiting for one. After ending a long-term relationship I realized that I had never chosen to be single, it had just happened," reveals the artist and writer Sark in Eat Mangoes Naked: Finding Pleasure Everywhere and Dancing with the Pits, with the disarming candor that makes her so beloved by all her fans, including me. "So I embarked on a real love affair with myself, a mad passionate one which involved having a very singular focus on myself and my capacity for self-love. I had always been afraid to explore self-love for fear of what I would find, or not find there, or being thought of as selfish! Also, who would I be without someone to love? Could I really stop 'looking' and just look at myself? And if I was not enough for myself, how could I be enough for another? Could I be my own someone?"Sark's question is one that every woman understands she might have to ask one day, but we never expect it today. Surprise. Love's pop quiz is on the agenda right now, and it isn't multiple choice. So crib from me. You are your own someone (whether or not you're in a relationship with someone else). And though it might be a clandestine affair at the moment, it's time to go public with a little love magic called dating yourself."Dating yourself is quite possibly the most satisfying way to date. You know from the start that you're building a relationship that will last. You don't have to worry about infidelity. You always get to choose the restaurant and you never have to pretend you're in the mood to see Baywatch or anything else. You win every argument, and you'll never lie awake in the wet spot feeling unsatisfied," bad girl Cameron Tuttle assures us. Whether you're single or married, eighteen or eighty, you can date yourself. However, as Cameron points out in The Bad Girl's Guide to Getting What You Want, "When dating yourself, it's important to communicate clearly, just as in any other relationship. Make time for pillow talk a few nights a week. If you set an appointment with yourself, you'll know you have a sacred and safe place where you and your hand mirror can spend some quality time together in bed. Make a ritual of it: turn on soft romantic music, light a candle, and then speak from the heart to your own reflection. 'I love spending time with you. You're the best thing that's ever happened to me. It's fun getting to know you. You make me so happy. I've never loved like this before. You complete me.' When you say the words out loud, your feelings resonate and actually become more real."I confess I snickered when I first read that passage. But skeptics make the best evangelists. "Self-seduction does sound a bit mad, doesn't it?" Anna Johnson admits with a sensuous smirk in Three Black Skirts: All You Need to Survive. But "romancing your life creates energy, energy makes you happy, being happy brings back your sense of humor, and laughing makes you pretty. Everyone is suddenly asking you, 'Are you in love?' and a

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