Torn Asunder Recovering From an Extramarital Affair
by Carder, Dave; Jaenicke, Duncan; Townsend, Dr. JohnFormat: Paperback
Pub. Date: 2008-10-01
Publisher(s): Moody Publishers
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Summary
Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.
Author Biography
Dave Carder currently serves as pastor responsible for counseling ministries at the First Evangelical Free Church of Fullerton, California
Table of Contents
| Foreword | p. 9 |
| Acknowledgments | p. 11 |
| Prologue: A Letter from "The Other Woman" | p. 13 |
| Understanding Extramarital Affairs | |
| "What God Hath Joined Together": In Pursuit of Healing for Shattered Marriages | p. 23 |
| Sorting Out the Chaos: The One-Night Stand and Sexual Addiction | p. 47 |
| Sorting Out the Chaos: The Entangled Affair and the Add-on Affair | p. 63 |
| Causes: Environments that Allow Affairs to Flourish | p. 79 |
| Other Factors Contributing to Infidelity | p. 97 |
| Healing from Affairs | |
| Understanding the Recovery: The Infidel's Process | p. 117 |
| Understanding the Recovery: The Spouse's Process | p. 131 |
| Why? Deciphering the Message of the Affair | p. 145 |
| Anger in Affairs: Getting Good Out of Getting Mad | p. 169 |
| Can I Trust You Again? Rebuilding Trust | p. 193 |
| "And They Shall Be as One": Restructuring Intimacy | p. 217 |
| Special Circumstances | |
| To Tell or Not to Tell? The Secret Affair | p. 237 |
| Emotional Affairs: Hooked, Played-Out, and Desperate for Release | p. 249 |
| When Your Spouse Doesn't Want You Back: The 90-Day Experiment | p. 261 |
| What to Tell the Kids | p. 293 |
| Materials for Use with a Couples' Support Group | p. 297 |
| Marital Satisfaction Time Line | p. 307 |
| Selected Marriage and Recovery Resources | p. 311 |
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